40

Today is the day I turn 40. I am happy about it because I feel better than I did at 30. Last night my amazing husband and some super terrific friends pulled off a huge surprise birthday party. It was fun. I was a little overwhelmed at first but following the shock it was a joy to visit with so many special people.

In no particular order, here are the things that I have found to be immeasurably valuable over the last 40 years.

1. a good husband

2. loyal friends

3. a community that cares

4. knowing what matters

5. loving others

6. doing what is right

7. honesty

8. saying "i forgive you"

9. saying "i'm sorry"

10. the love of a gracious Savior

11. family - the blood and chosen

12. trials that test